A queer Americano living in Milano. 🇮🇹 I’m here to help you live your most liberated, deliciously queer life.
Helpful
May 12, 2026
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1 min read
If you’re mixing drugs and sex, do these things to mend your mind and body after you get home.
Wholesome
May 5, 2026
3 min read
Wait a second, I’m choosing to be bad at another thing? On purpose???
Horny
Apr 28, 2026
When a men’s naked yoga class turned into something more, I remained flexible.
Apr 21, 2026
On the apps, it can be hard to attract someone who’s a lot hotter than you. But in a dark, sweaty club, things get a lot easier.
Apr 18, 2026
Reflections on the strange nature of public mourning.
Apr 14, 2026
5 min read
Remembering my grandfather Giuseppe: A lifelong gardener, passionate fisherman and skilled brickmason.
Apr 9, 2026
4 min read
Girls, I’ve got big dreams. I need your help to fund them.
Apr 7, 2026
2 min read
Here’s the tea on this deliciously wholesome and horny queer community.
A wonky referendum gave me the chance to contribute to this country’s civic life. I messed it up only a little bit.
Apr 1, 2026
As a paid subscriber, you get exclusive access to our spicy (!) and sociable new WhatsApp community.
Mar 31, 2026
Don’t have the homosexual urge to hit the gym? Not to worry. There’s a better way to get your body moving.
Mar 26, 2026
Join us for an all-levels-welcome, virtual figure drawing session. We’ll have a nude model with us on Zoom, and we’ll draw together.
Mar 17, 2026
8 min read
Will this be the summer you finally realize your desire to chill out on a clothing-optional coastline? Only you can decide.
Mar 10, 2026
Finocchio is becoming more than just a newsletter. Here’s the tea.
Mar 3, 2026
At a naturist mountain spa, I embraced a more liberal, shall we say, sauna tradition.
Feb 24, 2026
9 min read
Whether you want a serene stopover or a slutty sojourn, I’ve got you covered.
Feb 17, 2026
6 min read
A mid-autumn skinny dip in Vermont gave me a taste of the joy I longed for.
Feb 10, 2026
For my whole life, I’ve played by the rules. Now I’m asking: Am I allowed to be fully me?
Feb 3, 2026
12 min read
I went on a ski trip with more than 60 Italian gay men. And I lived to tell the tale.
Jan 27, 2026
The night I found the absolute perfect balance of wholesome and horny.
Jan 22, 2026
Why the horniness of Heated Rivalry is revolutionary—and necessary.
Jan 20, 2026
A spontaneous attempt at banana bread reconnected me with a habit from back home.
Jan 13, 2026
An ode to the type of “bananas” I love oh so very much.
Jan 7, 2026
I’m just a Type A girl, trying to survive in a Type B world.
Dec 23, 2025
On a hiking trip in Cinque Terre with 20 other gay guys, I found more than just dazzling views and delicious food.
