A queer Americano living in Milano. 🇮🇹 I’m here to help you live your most liberated, deliciously queer life.
Apr 1, 2026
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2 min read
As a paid subscriber, you get exclusive access to our spicy (!) and sociable new WhatsApp community.
Helpful
Mar 31, 2026
5 min read
Don’t have the homosexual urge to hit the gym? Not to worry. There’s a better way to get your body moving.
Mar 26, 2026
Join us for an all-levels-welcome, virtual figure drawing session. We’ll have a nude model with us on Zoom, and we’ll draw together.
Mar 17, 2026
8 min read
Will this be the summer you finally realize your desire to chill out on a clothing-optional coastline? Only you can decide.
Mar 10, 2026
Finocchio is becoming more than just a newsletter. Here’s the tea.
Horny
Mar 3, 2026
At a naturist mountain spa, I embraced a more liberal, shall we say, sauna tradition.
Feb 24, 2026
9 min read
Whether you want a serene stopover or a slutty sojourn, I’ve got you covered.
Wholesome
Feb 17, 2026
6 min read
A mid-autumn skinny dip in Vermont gave me a taste of the joy I longed for.
Feb 10, 2026
For my whole life, I’ve played by the rules. Now I’m asking: Am I allowed to be fully me?
Feb 3, 2026
12 min read
I went on a ski trip with more than 60 Italian gay men. And I lived to tell the tale.
Jan 27, 2026
The night I found the absolute perfect balance of wholesome and horny.
Jan 22, 2026
4 min read
Why the horniness of Heated Rivalry is revolutionary—and necessary.
Jan 20, 2026
A spontaneous attempt at banana bread reconnected me with a habit from back home.
Jan 13, 2026
An ode to the type of “bananas” I love oh so very much.
Jan 7, 2026
I’m just a Type A girl, trying to survive in a Type B world.
Dec 23, 2025
On a hiking trip in Cinque Terre with 20 other gay guys, I found more than just dazzling views and delicious food.
Dec 16, 2025
Why do I always go so hard on making a home in a new place, even when it’s temporary?
Dec 9, 2025
11 min read
I took the ‘promiscuous’ train going annnnyyyywhereee.
Dec 2, 2025
Sorting through my late aunt’s belongings in Sicily, I witnessed close to a century of life, captured on film.
Nov 25, 2025
10 min read
Do as the Romans do? Well, I certainly did the Romans, at the very least.
freelancing
Nov 18, 2025
Fellow freelancers: The library is open! Find your next read with this roundup of delightful, insightful newsletters.
Nov 11, 2025
7 min read
At a new-to-me club with a cheeky name, I regained my faith in Milan’s cruising culture.
Nov 5, 2025
3 min read
I’m giving you my insider, always-updated map of the best food, shopping and sights in Milan.
Oct 28, 2025
My very gay, sometimes delightful experiences of the Italian healthcare system.
Oct 22, 2025
I dreamt about a Milan gay club for a decade. But it wasn’t what I expected.
