A queer Americano living in Milano. š®š¹ Iām here to help you live your most liberated, deliciously queer life.
Wholesome
Aug 18, 2026
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4 min read
Reflections on the unrelenting heat that has assaulted Milan all summer.
Aug 11, 2026
7 min read
A mental health crisis completely derailed me. But my move abroad was not what brought me back to myself.
Horny
Aug 4, 2026
3 min read
I yearned for the type of massage I had only heard about on TV.
Jul 21, 2026
Nothingāand I mean nothingāwill stop us gays from being naked in the summer.
Helpful
Jul 14, 2026
Politics have always been in the back of my mind. But they werenāt the main factor in my move.
Jul 7, 2026
Actually, please donāt. Please, for the love of God. Iām begging you.
Jun 30, 2026
Being dominant isnāt really in my nature. But I tried it, anyway.
Jun 23, 2026
2 min read
Banish the fear and get curious about what brings you (and your partner) pleasure.
Jun 16, 2026
I long preached body positivity. Then I got a taste of my own medicine.
Jun 9, 2026
15 min read
The Boy Beach! The Dick Dock! Oh My!
Jun 2, 2026
1 min read
I almost let fears about my health keep me chaste. Then I realized I could, actually, live out my sexual fantasies.
May 26, 2026
āChristopher Streetā magazine paved the way for the world of queer books (and humble newsletters) we enjoy today. My very own brother tells the story.
May 19, 2026
5 min read
'Ben' wasnāt the only āBig' thing I saw in the British capital.
May 12, 2026
If youāre mixing drugs and sex, do these things to mend your mind and body after you get home.
May 5, 2026
Wait a second, Iām choosing to be bad at another thing? On purpose???
Apr 28, 2026
When a menās naked yoga class turned into something more, I remained flexible.
Apr 21, 2026
On the apps, it can be hard to attract someone whoās a lot hotter than you. But in a dark, sweaty club, things get a lot easier.
Apr 18, 2026
Reflections on the strange nature of public mourning.
Apr 14, 2026
Remembering my grandfather Giuseppe: A lifelong gardener, passionate fisherman and skilled brickmason.
Apr 9, 2026
Girls, Iāve got big dreams. I need your help to fund them.
Apr 7, 2026
Hereās the tea on this deliciously wholesome and horny queer community.
A wonky referendum gave me the chance to contribute to this countryās civic life. I messed it up only a little bit.
Apr 1, 2026
As a paid subscriber, you get exclusive access to our spicy (!) and sociable new WhatsApp community.
Mar 31, 2026
Donāt have the homosexual urge to hit the gym? Not to worry. Thereās a better way to get your body moving.
Mar 26, 2026
Join us for an all-levels-welcome, virtual figure drawing session. Weāll have a nude model with us on Zoom, and weāll draw together.
