A queer Americano living in Milano. š®š¹ Iām here to help you live your most liberated, deliciously queer life.
Wholesome
Oct 6, 2026
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4 min read
Things that once fueled years-long fantasies are now just the stuff of my everyday life. That's not always a good thing.
Horny
Sep 29, 2026
1 min read
The weekend that showed me that unbridled sexuality didn't have to come with stigma or shame.
Sep 22, 2026
10 min read
Over nine years, HoeĢl has been my hiking buddy, confidant, career whisperer and constant cheerleader.
Sep 15, 2026
5 min read
Mere days after a devastating breakup, I fulfilled a long-held fantasy.
Sep 8, 2026
Yes, bottoms need to eat. I know, shocking.
Sep 1, 2026
One year later, here's my honest assessment of life in Milan.
Helpful
Aug 25, 2026
3 min read
Sex is a hilariously strange activity if you think about it. Accidents are bound to happen.
Aug 18, 2026
Reflections on the unrelenting heat that has assaulted Milan all summer.
Aug 11, 2026
7 min read
A mental health crisis completely derailed me. But my move abroad was not what brought me back to myself.
Aug 4, 2026
I yearned for the type of massage I had only heard about on TV.
Jul 21, 2026
Nothingāand I mean nothingāwill stop us gays from being naked in the summer.
Jul 14, 2026
Politics have always been in the back of my mind. But they werenāt the main factor in my move.
Jul 7, 2026
Actually, please donāt. Please, for the love of God. Iām begging you.
Jun 30, 2026
Being dominant isnāt really in my nature. But I tried it, anyway.
Jun 23, 2026
2 min read
Banish the fear and get curious about what brings you (and your partner) pleasure.
Jun 16, 2026
I long preached body positivity. Then I got a taste of my own medicine.
Jun 9, 2026
15 min read
The Boy Beach! The Dick Dock! Oh My!
Jun 2, 2026
I almost let fears about my health keep me chaste. Then I realized I could, actually, live out my sexual fantasies.
May 26, 2026
āChristopher Streetā magazine paved the way for the world of queer books (and humble newsletters) we enjoy today. My very own brother tells the story.
May 19, 2026
'Ben' wasnāt the only āBig' thing I saw in the British capital.
May 12, 2026
If youāre mixing drugs and sex, do these things to mend your mind and body after you get home.
May 5, 2026
Wait a second, Iām choosing to be bad at another thing? On purpose???
Apr 28, 2026
When a menās naked yoga class turned into something more, I remained flexible.
Apr 21, 2026
On the apps, it can be hard to attract someone whoās a lot hotter than you. But in a dark, sweaty club, things get a lot easier.
Apr 18, 2026
Reflections on the strange nature of public mourning.
